“What are you training for?”
A few years ago a friend posed this question when we decided to go out for a run together.
I wasn’t sure how to reply. I was just running. No plan, just running.
“Nothing really, I am just running.”
Their question stayed with me after that day. I couldn’t seem to shake it.
Later that day we talked about goal setting, and how important creating a set of goals can be to focus our lives, our activities, and our energy.
In the past year I set a goal to run a “longer than my normal” race.
A goal that would require discipline, time, and a plan.
A goal that would require activity despite the weather, feelings, or attitude.
A goal that would require moving past obstacles and fear.
That day is almost here, and the race will end. So will the training. My mind and body are looking forward to a little rest.
But, part of me doesn’t quite know what to do when the goal is complete. There is a strange sense of loss when you return to a normal routine after you have been pursuing hard after a goal. The training that once felt like a burden, is now savored because the end is near.
Maybe I just need to keep asking my friend’s question, but not limit it to running.
“What are you training for?”
Having an answer to that question for additional aspects of life may be just what we need.
Carl Weber Consulting 