“This is hard. I am not sure if I want to keep doing this.”
“This is hard, much more than I originally thought.”
“I was hoping it would get easier, but this is still hard.”
“Wow, making this change is hard.”
“Training for this [insert life event here] is hard.”
“Trying again is hard. What if I don’t [succeed, get into that school, get that job, get better, maintain that relationship, find the right career, learn to overcome this thing/fear/obstacle, bring value, find my path, finish well, make a difference]”insert any or all of these…
Multiple conversations. Similar statements.
Some statements are from customers or “coachees.” (Those being coached, is that even a word?)
Some statements are from my running partners.
Some statements are from friends.
Some statements are from my daughters who are either trying something for the first time, or pushing through with their life pursuits.
Some statements are my own.
What is an appropriate reply to all these words?
Stop trying? No.
Give up? No.
Easy is a better path? No.
Hard is okay.
It doesn’t mean that Hard is fun.
It doesn’t mean that we always enjoy Hard.
It doesn’t mean that Hard will be easy.
But maybe we can accept Hard for what it is.
Hard is okay.
Carl Weber Consulting 