“This is hard. I am not sure if I want to keep doing this.”
“This is hard, much more than I originally thought.”
“I was hoping it would get easier, but this is still hard.”
“Wow, making this change is hard.”
“Training for this [insert life event here] is hard.”
“Trying again is hard. What if I don’t [succeed, get into that school, get that job, get better, maintain that relationship, find the right career, learn to overcome this thing/fear/obstacle, bring value, find my path, finish well, make a difference]”insert any or all of these…
Multiple conversations. Similar statements.
Some statements are from customers or “coachees.” (Those being coached, is that even a word?)
Some statements are from my running partners.
Some statements are from friends.
Some statements are from my daughters who are either trying something for the first time, or pushing through with their life pursuits.
Some statements are my own.
What is an appropriate reply to all these words?
Stop trying? No.
Give up? No.
Easy is a better path? No.
Hard is okay.
It doesn’t mean that Hard is fun.
It doesn’t mean that we always enjoy Hard.
It doesn’t mean that Hard will be easy.
But maybe we can accept Hard for what it is.
Hard is okay.
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Carl Weber, is the owner and founder of Carl Weber Consulting, a consulting group that helps businesses, non-profits, and individuals understand themselves, hire and manage well, and become great leaders. Carl worked in local government for more than ten years, as the Town Administrator of a few towns in NH. Once upon a time he was a search and rescue swimmer for the US Navy.
Carl holds Bachelors’ Degrees in Political Science & Community Development and a Master’s Degree in Public Policy. Carl is a Certified Professional Behavioral Analyst (CPBA) and Certified Professional Motivators Analyst (CPMA).
Carl regularly teaches on human factors and the relationship of behavior and leadership styles, as well as motivation, coaching, leadership challenges, and failing as a leader. His passion is to help leaders in their lifelong journey to finish well, to combat and work with their inner voice, and to live a meaningful story worth reading.
Carl lives in Southern New Hampshire with his wife Amanda and together they are raising a small tribe of four young (somewhat crazy) women with the goal of unleashing them on the world to change it for the better.
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Amazing post 😀 very true words..
Wonderful post!
Thanks, nothing better than when a post resonates with others.
Carl