(Image courtesy of the One of My Dreams, and the road trip)
Sometimes our dreams don’t work out.
But dreams (goals, aspirations, how we want things to be) can fool us into thinking that the road will be easy.
We have this idea, so it should just happen right?
I want this or that, therefore it should become a reality.
Yes it may be a little work, but hey “I have been working on this dream for over two weeks.”
During a recent discussion with a close friend, we talked about how dreams are the result of hard work. The result (that dream state) is typically achieved after years of sacrifice and working a plan that made that dream a reality.
We laughed at how much we dream without counting the cost. Big dreams without counting the hard work it will take to make them happen.
The “overnight success” band dream. Fifteen years of crossing the country to work every small bar, festival, or venue.
The “retirement traveler” dream. Thirty-three years of saving, investing, and saying no to the daily temptations of purchases.
The “dream job” dream. Ten years of attending school part-time while working, raising kids, and unpaid internships to gain experience.
The “business start-up” dream. Thirteen years of finding a market, staying up late working on proposals, being rejected, making mistakes, borrowing money, trying to keep records, making a product or service, building relationships, inspiring trust, learning to ship, and trying to convince others that you bring value.
The “perfect parent” dream. A lifetime of relationships, negotiations, cleaning up, providing for, apologizing, correction and guidance, time, energy, and intention.
The “great relationship” dream. Seasons of distance, making time, grief, disappointment, non-response, frustration, misunderstanding, forgiveness, and rejection.
But know that dreams require something in return.
The hard work of dreams is what takes a concept or idea and makes it real.
It will cost you, but the reward is worth the hard work.
P.S. A few days ago marked four years for this writing dream. Just a few more decades to go…