Let’s face it, not all of our dreams work out. We set goals, we have a vision of the future and something derails, delays, or simply denies it from happening. What do we do in the face of this failure?
I suppose we have a choice to make. We can choose to pick up the pieces, see what we could have done better (maybe), and start to aim towards another dream or goal. Or, we can become tainted, cynical, and hardened. Yes, those seem like two extreme views, but by not consciously picking the first, we tend to end up in the second even if we do not realize it.
Life can at times be harder than we imagined. When I think about life, there are way more long-periods of monotony with brief moments of excitement (good or bad). What seems to break up the daily routine of life is a dream. The strange little hope that you can make a difference, do something great, and alter your story and the stories of those around you.
So the next time that dream starts to become just a faded light in the rear-view mirror, stop looking back, look forward and find the next dream…and the next…and the next. Make the choice, and don’t let the hardening of disappointment in…dream instead.