We all have Habits.
Certain things we do that are a recurring pattern. Some we enjoy and are positive in our lives. Others are not great for us, and we struggle with changing them.
Habits become wired in our brains so we can focus on other more important aspects of our lives. Try to be more aware the next time you brush your teeth, take a shower, or get dressed, watch how this pattern of brushing, washing and dressing unfolds. The odds are you have a Habit that follows a pattern.
However, breaking a prior habit and re-wiring something new takes time and effort. In the first few weeks of trying something new, the old Habit tries to reestablish its dominance.
While helping someone establish a new Habit and replace and old one, they became frustrated when the old Habit returned.
“It seems to be back. I am trying.”
“You have made a lot of progress, maybe that is just the Habit Residue.”
“What are you taking about?”
“You know, what is left behind after something is gone. After I drink my coffee, there is coffee residue in the mug. The coffee is gone, I can still smell it, but the actual coffee is no longer here.”
We laughed and they were able to move forward. Somehow putting the Habit Residue in its place made it seem less powerful, less able to reassert itself back in their life.
What Habits are not working for you? What areas of your life, work, home, or relationships could use some new patterns?
Changing these Habits may not be easy, especially when the Habit Residue pretends to be the real thing. Putting the Habit Residue in its place may be a good place to start.
2 thoughts on “Habit Residue”
Great article, love this illustration!
Thanks, glad you liked it. Speaking of habits, the photo is the inside of my favorite coffee mug. The one I am typically drinking out of while writing. A habit worth keeping.
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